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Flawless Thinking for Law Enforcement Marriages 
and Families

Are We Flawed In Our Thinking?

Truth ~ Seeking to discover truth … within our marriages … to create relationships for life.

What leads us from … being head over heels … totally and passionately in love to … well … honestly not wanting to be in the same room together … and how to prevent that from happening and/or how to change that if it has happened.

Join us every Tuesday @ 11:30 am est!

Being married … let’s be honest … is really hard.

Being married to a police officer or as a police officer is … well … even harder.
The great news is that … when we apply natural laws within the universe, which we will learn in this book … we not only will have a good marriage and not only have a great marriage but we’ll have a marriage all our friends will be envious of.

The great news is that you can share this book with others as it can transform not only our marriages and lives but also the lives and marriages of those within the communities we serve. This is not like anything else you have ever experienced … and it’s not a quick fix. This will take hard work and take time.

The world is becoming a far more dangerous place for police, their marriages and their families, with threats coming from places that those who have gone before us never faced.

Would You Like Better Relationships?

Hard to believe . . . but it's true.
Take 3 minutes each, to answer the following questions and be amazed! 

Would you like to go deeper in 8 areas of your marriage?

Take 3 minutes with your partner to take this short survey! Not only will this survey make you think and open up your eyes immediately to what you and your partner both need and are dealing with in your lives. . . but it will help you to gain better value from this mastermind group!

This survey takes roughly 20 minutes to complete and covers ... ~ Life Vision ~ Communications ~ Fun & Play ~ Intimacy / Sex ~ Parenting ~ Financial ~ Spiritual and Other

Ideally take this survey separately from your partner and then come together to share thoughts.

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for Flawless Thinking Mastermind Group!

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Founder(s)

Mark Boersma

Rosanna Boersma

Previous Lessons

  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 7 minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Intro ... 
"Let's get to know one another" 

Do you feel you and your spouse are soul mates?  Do you feel that you and your spouse are "doing life together?"  Are you both playing from the same sheet of music?

Sorry to say ... most couples are not.  Most individuals do not know precisely what their life vision is.  

What this chapter will help us to do ... is for each of us to take 20 minutes to do our very own, unique passion circle and then discover our own unique  life vision. 

We will then learn how to bring our often very different and unique passions together to create something that is both individual and fully connected.

Session #1 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.
  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 7 minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 1 ~ Our Life Visions

Do you feel you and your spouse are soul mates?  Do you feel that you and your spouse are "doing life together?"  Are you both playing from the same sheet of music?

Sorry to say ... most couples are not.  Most individuals do not know precisely what their life vision is.  

What this chapter will help us to do ... is for each of us to take 20 minutes to do our very own, unique passion circle and then discover our own unique  life vision. 

We will then learn how to bring our often very different and unique passions together to create something that is both individual and fully connected.

Session #1 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.
  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 7 minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 2 ~ Communications

As you listen/watch this session, do you see how those who watched Session #1 had more questions and were engaged?  :-)

To gain the most from each session, take action and practice what we learn to our spouses, children, co-workers, and even strangers.  

Work to identify someone's personality as Mark shared in Session #1, based on two questions.
  1. Are they more or less aggressive?
  2. Are they more focused on tasks or people?

Once you think you have identified their personality based on the above two questions, then have them take the 3 minute online survey, saying they were referred by you.  Bring the results, successes, and challenges back to the group to share with others, as we will learn more together than we ever could on our own.

Session #2 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.
  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 7 minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 3 ~ Fun & Play

As you listen/watch this session, do you see how those who were a part of the previous LIVE sessions have already started to grow and learn?  :-)

To gain the most from each session, you want to have a clear direction of where you want to go, even if you don't know how to get there yet!  

Being able to learn and discuss marriages / relationships with both men and women, to hear both sides, is the best way to improve your
marriage / relationship!

In this session, we discuss the importance of realizing what the difficulties are in the relationship, how you need to be able to understand your side of it and your partner's side....getting a new perspective can save your marriage!

Session #3 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.

Part 1

  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 37minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 4 ~ Intimacy & Sex

This chapter is really about the results of great work on the first three chapters in so many ways.  We'll learn about what we call Tarzan Jane Jungle Sex or TJJS.  There may be some interesting surprises in his chapter, even for couples who have been married for decades.  

To gain the most from each session, you want to have a clear direction of where you want to go, even if you don't know how to get there yet!  

Being able to learn and discuss marriages / relationships with both men and women, to hear both sides, is the best way to improve your 
marriage / relationship!

In this session, we discuss the importance of realizing what the difficulties are in the relationship, how you need to be able to understand your side of it and your partner's side....getting a new perspective can save your marriage!

Session #3 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.

Part 2

  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 37minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 4 ~ Intimacy & Sex

Sexual intimacy in marriage is central to the strength and unity between you and your partner; however, sexual intimacy involves much more than the sex alone.

The intimacy shared between you and your partner is comprised of the genuine closeness, support, and companionship you share with one another.

To gain the most from each session, you want to have a clear direction of where you want to go, even if you don't know how to get there yet!  

Being able to learn and discuss marriages / relationships with both men and women, to hear both sides, is the best way to improve your 
marriage / relationship!

In this session, we discuss the importance of realizing what the difficulties are in the relationship, how you need to be able to understand your side of it and your partner's side....getting a new perspective can save your marriage!

Session #3 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.
  • SEE ~ When you watch the video ... what do you SEE?   Do you share this video with others and SEE what they SEE?  
  • THINK ~ Does this video trigger you to think about things, about yourself ... about other people in a different way?   
  • DO ~ What does this video cause you to do?  HINT:  Maybe personally take the 7 minute couples personality survey AND share it with others you know, asking them to put you as the person who referred them.  ~ click here ~ for 37minute online survey.  
  • CORE ~ Fixing things at the CORE

Chapter 5 ~ Parenting

Are we given to our children to help them grow into what they were created to be … OR … are they given to us to help us become who we were created to be?

Yes … it’s true that our parents often put the foundation in our lives for our values and beliefs, but our children, it seems, challenge everything we believe to be true. 

To gain the most from each session, you want to have a clear direction of where you want to go, even if you don't know how to get there yet!  

Being able to learn and discuss marriages / relationships with both men and women, to hear both sides, is the best way to improve your 
marriage / relationship!

In this session, we discuss the importance of realizing what the difficulties are in the relationship, how you need to be able to understand your side of it and your partner's side....getting a new perspective can save your marriage!

Session #3 Assignment

If we "just watch the lesson" and do not do the assignments we become a part of the problem.  If we aren't disciplined in appling what we learn to EVERY area of life, we will never master what is being taught. 

Have 3 people complete the 3 minute survey.

As Mark mentioned in the session today, going through the lesson, going through courses, while very important ... will not produce masteries.   We must DO.  Practice, practice, and more practice is what is required to see success in gaining the knowledge in how to identify someone's personality & then knowing, at a reflex level what is the best way to respond.   ~ click here ~ for 3 minute to share with others.

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